Monday, March 25, 2019

2 qualities that make women crazy

If you make a woman crazy (in a good way), you can be sure to have fun.

The idea is not to make a woman crazy to the point of throwing herself into your arms while shouting that she wants you here and now (whatever if it happens, good for you), but rather to give her so much want to see you and spend time together that she will throw out the window of propriety and join you at home in the evening. Or make him want to kiss you immediately, if you are already side by side.



Experiment = win
Giving desire to a woman is an art, and it requires a certain ability to adapt according to the context and its character. But when you get to grips with some universal tricks and subtleties, you'll find even more fun and opportunities to flirt with women that interest you!

Some qualities that we expose will match your character, and others less. You are invited to keep an open mind and try to exercise each of these values, in order to develop yourself as a charismatic man. Understand that seduction is an activity in which one renews oneself permanently, while remaining authentic to its principles. The more variety and integrity you show to women, the better.

Here are some qualities that will help you to strongly develop your power of attraction. Good reading :

Efficient ... and positive!
Being a positive man does not mean being happy with everything and seeing only the good in life. You are told immediately to avoid misunderstanding.

A man who is too positive may very well run away from women just because they are looking for authenticity. They aspire to live concrete and exciting emotions with concrete partners ... and exciting.

The fact is that forcing the positivity makes you wrong: you play a role that does not suit you and in which your only goal is to make a good impression to the women with whom you exchange.

So, what do we mean by positive? We are talking about energy.

If you have energy to spare, you will share it with people around you, especially women.

How to have energy? If you feel soft, you have several approaches. Perhaps you miss activities in which you flourish. Maybe you do not do a lot of sport and that takes your spirits away without you realizing it.

Start by doing a light physical training two to three times a week, if possible with other people to get a boost from the group. Also try to add hobbies like cooking, music, or writing ... and especially share your creations with your entourage, even if they are not fantastic: the goal is to share what makes you happy, no more, nor less. Regarding your career, if you have the impression that it is draining your energy, see if it is possible to rearrange your schedule as much as possible. See also how you can align your business with your interests: why not offer a mini-cooking workshop during a lunch break for example? Or do a short guitar lesson? Simply introduce a little life into your daily life and take care of your body: you will see that energy will be there.

Your vigilance
Being a watchful man can mean many things, and in any case it can be very attractive for a woman.

Being vigilant about the material details of everyday life is both a good thing for women, but also for your own lifestyle: if for example you are able to order the space in which you live and work, not to mention your ability to archive and sort all important documents concerning you (insurance, invoices, taxes etc) ... you will be more likely to spend each day without stress and especially to precisely locate the urgent tasks of those who are not not. From a woman's point of view, showing such rigor is both reassuring and respectable.

Of course we must also talk about the vigilance in your relationships, and more precisely the emotional intelligence: if you seek to show empathy, to try to put yourself in the place of others (even if you are not perfect, the important thing is to start) and to clearly understand the needs of your interlocutors ... you will bring a lot to the exchange and you will position yourself as a charismatic and reassuring man.

Start already listening to what women are saying and understand that most do not seek advice: they just want to deal with someone who hears them and accepts them for who they are. Be careful, do not take no for their shrink by offering too much psychological support (the responsibility lies with his girlfriends and parents).

Then see how you can support: if you see clearly that she is tired and does not want to talk, do not engage in too much conversation. Instead, suggest that you relax quickly around a hot chocolate for example.

The main message is this: be attentive as to its condition. Rather than trying to seduce her by using ready-made catchphrase phrases and playing a three-six-franc dredger number, try the best you can to feel the state in which she is. Then exchange with her by adjusting your energy level: if she is exhausted, do not go talk to her in an over excited way by moving your body in all directions. Interpret his energy level then, and balance with it. The report will be much easier to build and will let you enter your space much more quickly. Once that happens, reapply our first piece of advice by showing you dynamic and positive, and you will establish a virtuous cycle.

A strong identity and openness
Women generally love a man who conveys a present and assertive identity: that is, an ability to assume and not to worry about the opinion of others when it is not legitimate . An ability to be as demanding as tolerance. All this shows a strong interiority that makes interested women want to know you better and understand you.

We must not forget the qualities of openness, such as sociability and willingness to have fun. If you can strike a balance between these two aspects, women will be more curious about you and feel at ease with you. And some might REALLY want to meet you one-on-one. It's your turn !

Saturday, March 23, 2019

Steampunk Style in Glasses

What is Steampunk?
The Steampunk trend has always been between the subculture and the popular. This is a word that is familiar to people but many of them are not sure of its meaning. So let me introduce it to you. Steampunk is a lifestyle that involves reimagining the past with modern steam-powered technology. You understand? Always not? It would be as if Sherlock Holmes was solving crimes with a steam Iphone or if he was traveling through London in a mechanical segway. It is the Victorian era that meets the modern era. Yes, it sounds very strange but the trend has brought together a large community since the late 80's. Now, steampunk has its own music, fashion and lifestyle.




Steampunk Fashion
Most of the trend steampunk culture is dedicated to fashion. Fashion is simply the real imagination of the garment described in the many Steampunk novels. This style has been taken up by fans of the genre. Basically, the rule is that anything that emanates a Victorian atmosphere can be classified as steampunk, for both men and women. The key to ensuring a 100% steampunk and non vintage look is to accessorize it properly. The best way to add steampunk influences to your style is to bet on glasses and other accessories.

Sunglasses, sight and sports are the best way to give a steampunk side to your look. Mounts tend to be round and often have additional features such as turn signals or side shields. In addition, the frames are generally made of metal or incongruous materials. It is not surprising then that many brands now offer items that fit perfectly into the steampunk wardrobe in their collections, given its growing popularity. Many fashion trends are inspired by the subculture, so it's logical that avant-garde designers like Thom Browne and Matsick Maverick have referenced the trend in their creations. Buying steampunk items does not limit your choice of designers either, discover the collections of Dita or Armani. Visit the EasyLunettes website to discover the wide range of steampunk glasses.

Friday, March 22, 2019

HOW I AM BECOMING ADDICT TO THE MARKET!

Hello girls! 6 weeks ago I decided to take a new habit: get up very early in the morning and walk 4km fast before starting my day ... And you know what? It makes me crazy! Today I will tell you more about this experience!

Since the beginning of this year, I am really in a "healthier life" approach. I try to eat a lot healthier by significantly reducing meat and sugar in our diet and focusing on vegetables. But beyond food, it's really a change in depth that I'm living. It must be the "quarantine" that wants that. I am going to review my way of life as a whole, one would say 🤔 ... I coexist a lot on what I want for my daily life and for my future and that of my children. I try to be more active and less suffer what is "imposed" ... For example, I almost no longer watch TV (only one TV evening since January 1!) And I favor reading, suddenly I discover myself full of new and very inspiring interests ❤ ....

On a cold February Sunday, I thought about doing more physical exercise .... I really feel a loss of tone for a year and I often have back pain. I try to set up a "sport routine" for the last 2 years, but it's a habit that remains difficult to anchor .... I had hooked on the 7MWC application but I got tired of it .... I started in February a nutrition and sports program which I will talk about soon. To start this program well, I wanted to improve my cardio ... It's really my big weak point, I have little stamina and I run out of steam quickly, which causes me a disgust for sports activities like running ... hate running 🙈 One day, I talk with my hairdresser who tells me that she walks an hour every day for a year, that it changed his life, that it takes a lot of pleasure .... And there, THE revelation for me!



Yeah, if you do not like running ... then walk !!
It seemed like a good alternative. Then came the question "yes, but when? with my sick days? "... because the problem with this type of activity is that it always ends up after everything else ... In the beginning, it's the priority and then one day we say we really have no time and that We'll catch up the next day ... We start to skip days and this nice new habit is found relegated in the depths of our schedule of wonder women to finish in small digestive walk of Sunday afternoon ....

The safest thing was to just start my day with this new activity / habit .... Last year, I used to get up very early and it was very appreciated: the days seem longer and especially I am full of energy in the morning. In the fall, I began to retreat more and more the time of waking to finish up at 6:30 am .... Since I started walking, I get up again around 5:10, I get dressed quickly and before 5:30 I'm out and I walk ... I started the day that followed without asking too much question. I put on a jogging suit, my Gazelle and my parka ... Because if you have to wait for the perfect equipment: sports leggings, windbreakers, sneakers .... we never start! And the goal was not to shop but exercise!

The first day was pretty hard 🙄. The pace was steady (for me), I was doing the 4km in 45 minutes so I was out of breath, my joints hurt (rusty), my nose ran, I was hungry, thirsty .... in short the complete panoply ... I started again the next day, with more aches ... This time I drank herbal tea before leaving, it warmed me. It must be said that when I started the temperatures went from 0 to -8 ° C ... .. Then the third day, I was less breathless, less rusty, it began to please me ... After a week j I was hooked, rejoicing in the evening at bedtime for my walk the next day!

Unlike JJ Goldman, I do not walk alone 😂, I'll be too scared ... at 5:30 in February it's still dark night! But what pleasant sensations to see the village wake up slowly, fresh air, invigorating and the joy of taking a good shower and a nice breakfast back ... Me who usually is never hungry in the morning! Here I go for a squeezed orange juice, a slice of chicken breast, cottage cheese, a real breakfast (me who was "allergic" to salty in the morning 😉) ... .Then at 7am at daybreak, I fart the form obviously! This of course involves going to bed early .... 21h30 or 22h max for me .... but I appreciate this new rhythm ... .I am really full of energy in the morning, I will be able to fell mountains! I feel light and much more toned ...

Some tips for "good" walking:
keep straight: at first, we tend to put the upper body forward and out the buttocks .... you must make yourself stay upright.
the shoulders stay slightly behind but relaxed
the look in the distance and not on the ground
head straight and not down
use all the leg muscles, not just the calves
put your foot forward, put the heel flat first and gently and then unroll the foot to the toes. When you put the left heel on the ground, you must feel the toes of the right foot push the ground and propel you. One trick for pushing the ground is to imagine showing the underside of his soles to the person who follows.
swing your arms (certainly ridicule does not kill ... but you understand why I'm walking at 5am?), it gives impetus and you will walk faster!
start slowly and then increase the pace after a few minutes of warm up to hold 30 minutes of brisk walking and then slow down again in the last minutes
Once the 4 km passed finger in the nose (no more breathlessness, runny nose, body aches etc), I told myself that I could increase the distance 🤔. And then thinking about it, I said no, finally. Because I do not want performance, competition with myself, challenge ... I do not want to aim higher because what interests me is to hold on the duration ... I prefer "little" ... but every day, without exception. Because in the end, 4 km each morning, it is still 1500 km over a year ... that I will not have traveled before .... So that's my real goal: to last for the duration ... .❤

And you girls? Have you managed to anchor a "well-being" or sporting routine in a sustainable way in your thousand-minute lives? I would like to share with you about this ... Know how you did to keep in time, at what time of day or week you practice? Your keyboards!

I embrace you very much, and I wish you a very beautiful day! 😘

Master your own slow-paced life

Your biological rhythm can be slow or fast. Respect it. If you are fast and in a hurry like me, it is not a question of imposing at all costs a slowness which will not suit you and which could even have a negative impact by annoying you .... It is simply a question of time to "break" in his crazy rhythm to rediscover slowness (walk very slowly for a few minutes, apply his care oil on the body in a slow slowness taking care of every millimeter of his body rather than spreading all that fast) done well 😂 ...) The change of pace can not be radical. It is better to do it gradually and sustainably, by implementing "slowdown" ranges in your daily life ... .For this, you can, for example, give yourself 5 minutes each day to do nothing at all: no TV, no smartphone, no laundry to get out of the washing machine ... 5 minutes to do nothing at all. Serious, who does that? You realize? we even have more than 5 minutes on a 24-hour day to do nothing!



BOOSTER ITS ENTHUSIASM:
Reflect on these questions: "What do I really like? What do I like to do? What makes me happy? Actually….

It is better to be sincere with oneself and to distance oneself from these activities supposed to be exciting that one "imposes" us and which in fact, contribute to add a small layer on our crazy rhythm (the numerous external activities in particular ) .... For example if your kiff is small naps, do not feel guilty, it will be your little moment to you, there are tired of being productive H24, so try to integrate a small ritual "nap" in your life : weekends, OFF days etc ...

List some pleasures and try to practice them as often as possible. Have no guilt for this time for you. This time is the source of our vital energy. This is a very positive example for children in learning about life. They discover that it is not only constraints and chores .... Life is also there to do things we love. as often as possible, moreover.

SLOWDOWN IS REDISCOVERING SIMPLE PLACES:
To appreciate simple pleasures is to transform the ordinary into something extraordinary, to rediscover the value of small things, the taste of a cherry just picked ... .to listen to the song of a bird ... to feel the wind in summer ... a ray of sunshine in winter ... .cooking fresh seasonal produce ... .It is only slowing down that we can pay attention to the details that yet mark our days and our lives ... ..

PRACTICE:
There are some practical exercises to implement; including breathing exercises.
I propose this little exercise of a duration of 5 minutes but you can modulate the duration according to your needs.
Choose the most comfortable sitting position for you: on a cushion laid on the floor as a tailor or legs stretched back to the wall or simply sitting on a chair.
Close your eyes.
Straighten your back by imagining a thread stretching over your head.
Become aware of your points of support, the anchoring of your posture.
Pay attention to your breathing, which is steady and serene.
Feel the air at your nostrils with each breath and each expiration. Become aware of the areas mobilized by your breathing, your chest, your belly ...
As soon as thoughts wander, when you realize it, calmly return to your breath as many times as necessary.
And when you want, quietly reopen your eyes and take the time to stretch gently before resuming your activities.

You can of course also practice a moment of mediation. I resume an extract of "Calm, my notebook of meditation" Arnaud Riou and Marie Bretin.

I really appreciate this book because it allows to introduce small moments of meditation very easily in his daily life. Extract:

"The mind is 80,000 thoughts a day! Behind the flow of my thoughts, I perceive the silence of my being. Behind the harshness of my judgments, I perceive the sweetness of my heart. I cut "mental radio". For this, I pay attention to my posture and my breathing. If my thoughts move, I know how to dance between them. By concentrating naturally and without tension on my abdominal breathing, my thoughts will become fewer. I am present at my breathing, I am present at my bodily sensations here and now. "