The idea is not to make a woman crazy to the point of throwing herself into your arms while shouting that she wants you here and now (whatever if it happens, good for you), but rather to give her so much want to see you and spend time together that she will throw out the window of propriety and join you at home in the evening. Or make him want to kiss you immediately, if you are already side by side.
Experiment = win
Giving desire to a woman is an art, and it requires a certain ability to adapt according to the context and its character. But when you get to grips with some universal tricks and subtleties, you'll find even more fun and opportunities to flirt with women that interest you!
Some qualities that we expose will match your character, and others less. You are invited to keep an open mind and try to exercise each of these values, in order to develop yourself as a charismatic man. Understand that seduction is an activity in which one renews oneself permanently, while remaining authentic to its principles. The more variety and integrity you show to women, the better.
Here are some qualities that will help you to strongly develop your power of attraction. Good reading :
Efficient ... and positive!
Being a positive man does not mean being happy with everything and seeing only the good in life. You are told immediately to avoid misunderstanding.
A man who is too positive may very well run away from women just because they are looking for authenticity. They aspire to live concrete and exciting emotions with concrete partners ... and exciting.
The fact is that forcing the positivity makes you wrong: you play a role that does not suit you and in which your only goal is to make a good impression to the women with whom you exchange.
So, what do we mean by positive? We are talking about energy.
If you have energy to spare, you will share it with people around you, especially women.
How to have energy? If you feel soft, you have several approaches. Perhaps you miss activities in which you flourish. Maybe you do not do a lot of sport and that takes your spirits away without you realizing it.
Start by doing a light physical training two to three times a week, if possible with other people to get a boost from the group. Also try to add hobbies like cooking, music, or writing ... and especially share your creations with your entourage, even if they are not fantastic: the goal is to share what makes you happy, no more, nor less. Regarding your career, if you have the impression that it is draining your energy, see if it is possible to rearrange your schedule as much as possible. See also how you can align your business with your interests: why not offer a mini-cooking workshop during a lunch break for example? Or do a short guitar lesson? Simply introduce a little life into your daily life and take care of your body: you will see that energy will be there.
Your vigilance
Being a watchful man can mean many things, and in any case it can be very attractive for a woman.
Being vigilant about the material details of everyday life is both a good thing for women, but also for your own lifestyle: if for example you are able to order the space in which you live and work, not to mention your ability to archive and sort all important documents concerning you (insurance, invoices, taxes etc) ... you will be more likely to spend each day without stress and especially to precisely locate the urgent tasks of those who are not not. From a woman's point of view, showing such rigor is both reassuring and respectable.
Of course we must also talk about the vigilance in your relationships, and more precisely the emotional intelligence: if you seek to show empathy, to try to put yourself in the place of others (even if you are not perfect, the important thing is to start) and to clearly understand the needs of your interlocutors ... you will bring a lot to the exchange and you will position yourself as a charismatic and reassuring man.
Start already listening to what women are saying and understand that most do not seek advice: they just want to deal with someone who hears them and accepts them for who they are. Be careful, do not take no for their shrink by offering too much psychological support (the responsibility lies with his girlfriends and parents).
Then see how you can support: if you see clearly that she is tired and does not want to talk, do not engage in too much conversation. Instead, suggest that you relax quickly around a hot chocolate for example.
The main message is this: be attentive as to its condition. Rather than trying to seduce her by using ready-made catchphrase phrases and playing a three-six-franc dredger number, try the best you can to feel the state in which she is. Then exchange with her by adjusting your energy level: if she is exhausted, do not go talk to her in an over excited way by moving your body in all directions. Interpret his energy level then, and balance with it. The report will be much easier to build and will let you enter your space much more quickly. Once that happens, reapply our first piece of advice by showing you dynamic and positive, and you will establish a virtuous cycle.
A strong identity and openness
Women generally love a man who conveys a present and assertive identity: that is, an ability to assume and not to worry about the opinion of others when it is not legitimate . An ability to be as demanding as tolerance. All this shows a strong interiority that makes interested women want to know you better and understand you.
We must not forget the qualities of openness, such as sociability and willingness to have fun. If you can strike a balance between these two aspects, women will be more curious about you and feel at ease with you. And some might REALLY want to meet you one-on-one. It's your turn !
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